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15 Signs You’re Meant To Be
Posted on: December 11, 2010
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You don’t have to check off all of these points to be sure about someone—but if you can say yes to several, you’ve found someone very special.
1. You tell him things you don’t tell anyone else. We don’t mean blurting something out after you’ve had too much merlot, but the desire to tell him intimate details about your life means you trust him—a major component of successful long-term love.
2. You let her see you in moments of weakness. It’s easy to be happy with someone when you’re feeling good about life. But what about when you’re not doing so well? Do you want to see her when you’ve been denied a raise, or your cat died or you had a plain old bad day? She should be a comfort during tough times, not a burden. 6 Ways To Be Extra-Supportive
3. You respect him. You don’t want to change the essence of who he is. There may be stuff that irritates you in everyday life—he insists on wearing his favorites, holey T-shirt, he eats sugar cereal for dinner, he still watches Saturday morning cartoons—but you like him, plain and simple.
4. You want him to meet your parents. You feel proud of him and you want to show him off—as opposed to feeling like you have to make excuses for him.
5. You can imagine a future together. You don’t have to practice writing your first name with his last name, but do you periodically let your mind wander to picture a life together? Is it amazing?
6. You’re not afraid to disagree with him. You know that even if you fight, he’ll listen to you and won’t brush you off. He takes you seriously, even when he thinks you’re wrong.
7. You want to work out your major differences. If you do have crucial differences that will impact your future together—different opinions about religion, money or something else—you want to work them out with him, and you believe you can come to a conclusion that will satisfy both of you.
8. You laugh together. Laughter is one of life’s simplest pleasures—you should definitely be able to crack each other up.
9. You’re incredibly, utterly, surprisingly attracted to her. Physical chemistry is an undeniably important ingredient in a healthy relationship. And if she’s not a classic beauty or your usual “type”? Even more reason to think she’s the one.
10. It’s OK to be quiet around her. You don’t feel like you have to fill the space between you with chatter or other interaction. Instead, you feel an easy comfort.
11. You feel like yourself around him. You don’t feel like you have to edit your thoughts; you’re not self-conscious or anxious.
12. You need him the right amount. You long for him—but not too much. Some neediness is good but too much breeds discontent.
13. You don’t feel too jealous. You’re comfortable with him going out with his friends—even female friends. You let each other have your own lives and hobbies. Feeling Jealous? Could Be A Good Thing
14. You feel like she makes you a better person. She makes you feel smart, funny, attractive, creative—like the best version of yourself. You feel like she brings out and complements the best parts of you.
15. She just gets you. Sometimes it’s that easy. You feel like she understands some essential part of you that you can’t explain or articulate. It’s a warm, comfortable feeling—and one you should have with the person you marry.
things turned out fine
Posted on: December 10, 2010
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nvr thought that I’d evr say this..but boy, am I glad that he didn’t bring any of those ‘stupid’ favor I asked him b4 up when we met yesterday.I’m so glad that we’re still friends after all that 🙂 I really don’t know what I’d say if he did asked me why did I chose 2 call him in the first place.guess that’s his way of being professional..& gentle,perhaps??
u c, when I arrived @ work a couple of days ago, I was kinda agitated 2 know that there’s a patient in the high-care.it means that I had to come in contact w/ him, whether I like it or not.kinda scared @ the thought @ 1st.that’s why I tried anything I can 2 prevent from being in contact w/ him by any means,including calling him for ‘any’ kind of consultation (although it’s not gonna b possible).
so,there i was doing my job.I was sitting on the high-care’s NS when he arrived that night.I wasn’t expecting 2 c him that day like the usual (coz I was kinda being in a ‘confusing state’).but of course,I can’t predict when he’ll stop by..& I certainly DON’T wanna call him just 2 ask when he’ll b coming,so I can pretend that I was busy @ another place & all.no,he had 2 come when I least expected it. thankfully,he seemed unaware that I was being agitated when we met.but I really dunno about that,coz like everyone said,I’m not good @ hiding my own facial expression,he3x 😉 so maybe he already noticed it & tries 2 let me feel ‘comfortable’ again. we ended up talking like the usual, instead of being awkward w/ 1 another..& THANK GOD he didn’t bring up any of those stupid things I asked a week ago!my head was already full of scenarios that I was going 2 say to him if he ever asked about it.instead, we talked & have a few laughs about everything that’s been going around us. pretty much fun too if I may say so,making me feel @ ease 🙂
cute thing happened yesterday when we met again @ the same place,w/ a different patient.I was so busy that day taking care of this patient whose not so well-educated.so busy on explaining back & forth about the risk of not taking an op,that when they finally did do the op,I was so exhausted that my head started to feel heavy @_@ so, I decided 2 sleep early.I spent an hour on bed facing back & forth restless coz my headache seemed 2 get much worse.I decided I had 2 take a medicine after all if I wanna get some rest.the high-care was empty coz the patient was being operated & the nurse left somewhere.I picked up the phone & dialled the ER 2 get me some meds 4 my headache.suddenly I heard the door opened but don’t know who it was yet.I saw a glimpse of a green suit so I thought it was dr.z looking up for the nurse there.instead,he was the one who came-in.I was caught by surprise coz I didn’t expect him 2 b the 1 operating that night.he was also surprise 2 c me too..in a pretty much messed up condition, if I may say so myself 😛 my face was looking pale,so he asked me what’s wrong.I didn’t answer his question,instead I asked him back why is he here & not his friend.they couldn’t make it,he said.then he asked me where is the patient’s status.it’s kinda odd thing 2 ask,coz usually the status was sent in w/ the patient 2 the OR.it’s not like it was his 1st day working there,u know.maybe it’s just an act 2 make up a conversation w/ me 😛 or maybe not. anyway,I told him it should b in the OR’s waiting room.after that,he started talking again.but this time I was so exhausted that I only manage 2 hear parts of what he’d said.he went on blabbering about an hour..but 2 my surprise,suddenly it felt like my head wasn’t so heavy again.the headache’s just..gone..so,does that mean that he’s supposed 2b ‘the med’ that I was looking 4 before?? .. maybe,hi3x 😉 .. guess I’m just not ready 2 let go of him yet.. 😛
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